Something a little different

So today is a sad day for me. 2 years ago I had my miscarriage, I still remember like it was yesterday, I did this post and to be honest it is still true, so I thought I would reshare it, plus add the two new additions

I saw this and thought actually I can sum up my last three years of having a baby and wanting another one in pictures. So here it is

27th September 2011, this is what I saw

scan

April 6th 2012, this happenednewborn

By August 2013, after three months of trying we decided to get thispuppy

On November 6th 2013, this happened pregnant 6th nov 2013

November 27th 2013 at 8 weeks pregnant, the worst happened sad

By April 10th 2014, still nothing so we brought thiskitten 2

Now we are about to hit a year since I fell pregnant and still nothing, My OH is putting his foot down on any new animals, but we shall see

March 21st 2015, still nothing so these two happen

I am hoping 2016 is our year. C keeps telling me that our bodies and brains understand a lot more than we give them credit for. And maybe the reason for not getting pregnant is because I just wouldn’t be able to handle it right now. But it still hurts

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24 Responses to Something a little different

  1. Tessa says:

    I am so sorry. I hope this is your year!

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  2. Souldiergirl says:

    Hi honey. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is with you so.
    Is that you and your baby in the photo? I wasn’t sure if you had a baby and then lost a baby. I don’t mean to pry, just was following your photos. I lost my baby so I understand and am so sorry ❤️

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  3. I think it will happen for you when the time is right

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  4. I think all things happen when it is the right time. My best advice is for you not to think about it all the time I know this is not an easy thing. Put it in the back of your mind and that is when it will happen.

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  5. Deb says:

    Next time I see a shooting star,I’m going to remember this post. Fingers crossed for 2016

    Liked by 2 people

  6. Midwestern Plant Girl says:

    I love being childless. Just sharing another perspective. I wonder why people put such importance on having children?
    I am sorry for your loss, miscarriages are very sad.

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    • She has a child and very well understands why having a child for her is important.

      This post is about loss. Maybe you didn’t mean it in this way, but I think it’s a bit insensitive to comment that you don’t understand why it’s so important for people to have kids. She needs support, not judgment.

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    • I think it takes a certain person not to want kids. I was never certain till I got pregnant with my son, but I think I always knew deep down I wanted children. I do have a few friends who would rather fry their own testicles (or in the case of my female friends fry their partners) then have a child. Takes all different types

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      • Of course. And I totally respect that there are people who don’t want children. I think it’s great that they don’t fall to society’s pressure of what’s considered typical. To each his own. It doesn’t affect me and frankly I don’t think everyone is cut out to be a parent.

        But there’s a time and a place for everything. If someone’s dog passes away – I am someone who has no pets – I wouldn’t comment that it is sad yet I can’t understand why people have pets because life is great without them. It would seem self centered and callous of me to interject my thoughts on the subject rather than offer support. Or say nothing.
        Anyway, I’m not meaning it as an attack on your friend. I just wanted her to know it came out a little off putting and she might not have realized it.
        Xoxo

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      • It was lovely of you to point it out and I do agree some people are not cut out to be parents. Its heartbreaking that most the time they find out when they actually have the children

        xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  7. I’m sorry, my friend. I wish you lots of luck. I’m glad you have a full house, though, of lots of little lovely furry friends! 🙂 fingers crossed this is your year!

    Liked by 1 person

  8. Atomic Words says:

    I am so sorry. Hope it happens for you

    Liked by 1 person

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