Ok, I have been banging on about how I have been behind, well I have nearly caught up and its amazing how much more relaxed I am now.
My OCD makes my anxiety worse, I still have a few things to do, but I am very nearly there. Also I have finally finished the thing that was bothering me the most, which was doing a budget and sorting out debts and payments. I mean, part of the problem is the fact that when you have nothing you can’t really give anything, but now having down it and got it all written down in front of me, I can see exactly how much I can offer to give.
I also went through my bank account and made sure that everything we had going out couldn’t be cut back even further, I have also done the adult thing of getting a joint bank account for all our household expenses, we each know how much is going into it and that way we should be able to control it better, without swapping each other cards when one or the other of us needs things.
You sound very well organised.
I am impressed.
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I get very focused when I need to do things to get me sorted, its probably what has been carrying me for the last few months
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good for you for keeping on top of your finances!
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It had to be done, we have had so much change over the last few months, rent, ulitlies, council tax etc, plus our income has changed has well. So I needed to get on top of it now, it probably means its going to be a skint Christmas present wise for monkey, but I know I will be able to get a few bits and pieces from Santa, so its just a quantity issue rather than a quality issues. But I think I prefer that, rather than going to a £1 shop and getting a ton of plastic tat that is going to last a day
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quality over quantity! he’ll enjoy the celebration more for longer that way : )
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That is what I am thinking
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Way to go! Being organised is good! 😀
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It feels much better
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That looks like a good start, be organize! Goodjob and goodluck! 😊
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Thank you 🙂
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