Of being so angry of not being able to leave my house and it getting me so far and then I hit a massive wall of anxiety
Of being depressed
Of being on benefits and never knowing if this is the budget that is going to take me under the poverty linke
Of being manic one day to not being able to get out of bed the next
Of being so reliant on my patnership, we are meant to be a partnership not it being 80/20
Of being awake at 3am and thinking if I can just go to sleep now I can get three hours sleep
Of having a brain so full of anxiety it keeps me up worrying about things I did ten years ago
Of sick of worrying about things I cannot change
Of the paranoia that with each changing shrink I have told my mental health journey so well I can tell it word for word and if I don’t get it right I am making it up but if I say it word for word I have it rehearst
Of changing Shrinks
Of not being a normal mum
And most of all I am sick of feeling like I am the only fucking person on this planet not to be able to get pregnant
Sending Hammy over right now with a gigantic hug.
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Make sure he has the vodka as well 😉 And thank you
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Yeah it’s about time for him to fall of the wagon LOL, sober hammy not nearly as fun to write about.
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Oh I think so 🙂
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You’re not alone…we’re all there…it’s the battlefield of the mind…
I pray…I force myself to let it go and to trust. It’s the hardest thing and usually my last resort, unfortunately :).
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Thank you so much
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Of being in general sucks right now 😦 better to let it out than keep all of it in. Huggs. xxx I don’t think there is normal Mom . Anyway . I hear you xx here is to better days 🙂
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There probably isn’t, but one that can go to the park when their are other people in it, I would settle with
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I am sorry you are feeling so low today.
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Its not so much feeling low, just generally feeling fed up
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Hey you *hugs* I can’t help and I have no advice, but you’re a great person and I hope good times are in store for you xo
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Fingers crossed for that lottery win 😉
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Lol. Same here. If I win I’ll pass some on. 😃
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make sure its enough for the mansion with the indoor swimming pool, and helicopter pad.
This seems to fit the bill
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Well quite, anything less would be cheap
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exactly 🙂
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😉
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🙂
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I’ve been told “normal is just a setting on the dryer”. I think the word normal is a relative term. I hope you feel better.
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I do agree, but a mum were going to the park isn’t a major hassel
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Sometimes being angry helps us get stubborn in a good way. Got any time at least once a week for any volunteer work? It helps us get out of ourselves, out of that hole of deep depression.
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I looked into volunteer work, as a ways of getting back into paid work. If I start volunteer work, it means I am well enough to start paid work and so all the benefits I am on stops bit of a catch 22 situation, I am still looking at other things the government offers that may help me,
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What positives do you have in your life? I’m pulling for you for things to get better. 🙂
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my son is the greatest positive in my life 🙂
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I’m glad you found a star in your night sky. I don’t have children but I can imagine the love you have for him. Glad to hear it.
My problem today: My boss was a rude, invalid bitch today. I’m waiting for the perfect time to talk to her. She is the leader of our workplace and does a terrible job at leading. Though I won’t tell her that, if I get the chance to talk to her I have to tell her how embarrassed she made me. And how rude she was to me. I dislike when people of authority think they can treat their lesser thans any kind of way. I hope I get the chance and the guts to tell her how I felt. I always seem to forget the shitty way people have treated me once I get good attention from them. I have to handle this the right way.
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Sending you lots of good thoughts. I am one of those people who will just blurt out how I feel regardless, which is normally not the best way. So I hope she listens to you and takes it on board
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Of course you’re not the only one who can’t get pregnant. But there are other channels. There are thousands of kids waiting for adoption. And they’re in dire need of a mom and/or a dad. Have y’all talked about that? I’m just curious. Not certain if I read about your partner much. Do they want more kids too?
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he would love a little girl (he has another son) but he wants another child. Its been mentioned in passing but due to how strict it is, and how mental I am, we might not be eligable to adopt
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Do you know of any medical condition that’s preventing pregnancy? If not, just keep trying. That’s all anyone can do. And, that’s the fun part! 😃
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The universe is a bastard. Is that a condition? Its just one of those things, we know we can. I have a four year old to prove that, and they won’t really run tests here in the UK properly till I am 35 and we have been trying with no luck for 2 years
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I’m so sorry. I really am. I wish I had some great advice, but other than continuing to try… I wish you the best of luck.
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Thank you so much. Its fine, this time of year I find everyone I know announces their pregnancies.
Your not pregnant are you. Cause that would really be taking the mick :-p
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Oh god no! My wife had a c section with the twins, tied her tubes. We are D U N done! Shit, I’m 47! She’s 49. 😃
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You sound genuinely scared at the idea
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At my age?!? Damn right! I’d be full on panic if she came and told me she was pregnant. And I LOVE kids. My heart would have ten, my head says, “What the fuck were you thinking?!?”.
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LOL I do wonder how people cope when they are having kids in their 60’s
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This cat won’t be!
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